How to Know It’s Love at First Sight

Love at first sight is when you see a stranger, engaged in a conversation, away from you and your heartbeat quickens and you feel as if your heart is in your throat. An instant attraction and liking for that stranger develops and you want to know all about him. Your world turns upside down in a moment and firework are experienced.

Suddenly, the color of sky appeals to you, the scent of flowers makes you cheerful and happy and you start watching everything  crystal clear clarity. This is when you realize that you are in love.  Being acquainted and related to that person and knowing him/her inside out makes you satisfied and happy. You want to know your better half, about how you could make him happy and fulfill his/her expectation.

The most vital role of being is love that you have sufficient knowledge about each other, or you yearn to have more knowledge just by looking at the person. Feelings are of utmost importance here as being in love in an instance is about how much you can understand the other person without words. A person can be judged to be the right one in just seconds, of a quarter of a minutes. Its all about how two strangers hit it off. If you want to take a relationship slowly, bit by bit, piece by piece, and you know deep down that you love him then it’s surely love at fight sight.

You are ready for a commitment and you don’t want to lose him just by going over-board at first and breaking it off. There should be splendid chemistry between both of the partners in order to make it a long lasting relationship. Knowledge of each other comes later but chemistry is right there at the start as well as the knowledge of how the other person is for you.

Watching someone, getting attracted to them and the flaring of a remarkable chemistry is really love at first sight but if the first thing that comes to your mind is being physical with someone, well then that is not love at first sight. It is only lust that you are experiencing and it ends soon. To take things slowly, getting to know someone before being physical is enough of an indication that it is love at first sight. Love makes you strong, invincible and reckless. It also makes you emotional but these can be countered by being there for someone. Someone said beautifully,

“Love at first sight isn’t something that’s impossible. But when you can truly love someone. Imperfections and all, that is a real miracle.”  Anonymous

Therefore, love at sight is a beautiful feeling and it is a feeling to be enjoyed and cherished. If you truly love someone, you should accept their flaws and deficiencies as well. So, next time you feel it’s love at first sight, keep these citations in mind and good luck.


Published by XunairaJ

Born on October 17, 1990 in Islamabad, Pakistan, to a government officer and a homemaker, Xunaira J, as a child dreamed of being a writer.She always loved writing short stories and has been active on Helium ( as a creative writer. She has been a blogger and been writing articles on relationship and family for a long time.When she was young, she used to write for US Magazine. Currently, Xunaira is doing her Bachelors in Mobile and Ubiquitous Computing and writing at the same time. The name of her first book on Amazon Kindle is "The Cursed City" while her second book is a book of collective short stories which will be published in October, 2013. Meanwhile, She is working on another Mystery/Romance novel which is almost reaching completion. She is anticipating to publish it sometime next year.

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